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Thursday, 13 August 2026
Wedding Diary- Chapter 2 Proposal Ring
Planning of Proposal~
I have mentioned I been thinking non-stop of having shortgun with him.
after we got into relationship like 8 months in Jul 25, without firm plan of when to get marry, we both applied for our first BTO application in Alexandra Peaks, as one of my favourite project, I love my park connector so much, and it was linked straight to Boat Quay that where he confess to me, and place that I said Yes.
We are lucky still? we got number 909/600+ vacancy... kind of like no hope but just because we are lucky that getting a number!
Where that's the almost same timeline that we moved in and stayed tgt for while.
Legit just wake up with dependent with each other presence, I am so grateful that knowing how he treasure on coming back home as the top priority everyday, because he knows there's always someone waiting for him to come home for. Alwasy have a warm food waiting for him on the table.
Nov one of the ramdon night, when i half asleep, i suddenly felt my left 4th finger slightly pressured.
i slightly open my arms from sleep, someone holding my hands and just got to pulled out a ring that his mum passed to him.
i closed my eyes, coz i know i gave him almost a shot. hahahah, so afterward this suaku nang, continue attempt again.
so.... hmm a man start from measuring a ring size. its time for our proposal!
I kept quite. and waited, we have an upcoming Shanghai trip in Dec 5-9
I guess, could be shanghai? could be disney land? could be in hotel room with the pearl tower view?
I waited.
During stayed in hotel. there no flower. so i asked. worried that he forget that, i gonna be super dissapointed. coz 告白不能少的是一个戒指，和一束花。 haahahah. So we grab order a flower, but still no ring. end of the trip i asked, where's my proposal. hahahahah and i confronted the Ring size testing story.
So aint the time huh.
afterall just pop up a wedding fair, so we went over without any date/time/location ideas at home.
We kind of started to feel excited to have our big day coming soon!
oh ya so regards my Ring, this suaku nang, actually taking my size and he found on a customized jeweller shop
he went couple of appt to the shop, told the jeweller about our story and asked me to stay turned for the one any only one speacial ring that only belong to his Miss Sunshine.
Without showing me the design, he told me theres gonna be my honeypot design + lucky and sunshine symbols.
Nov design and we finally got the ring by mid of April.
Which our upcoming Okinawa trip.
So, i kind of like knowing that he gonna to do a proper proposal. I start to hesitate. Isnt proposal is asking ur partner to say yes when no idea of getting marry yet, so u plan on something and confess again that be very serious that, hey, do u agree is the right timing that we should move on to next stage of life? we also got to bid for BTO, any chance i will say no meh. hahahah!
and not only he want to marry me, i also mah~ so i wanna do a two way proposal. Apparently. i failed. Coz i didnt so well prepared like him!
So where our upgrading roles for each other upgraded from this trip.
Fiance and Fiancee ^^
under the starynight, with 2 pure japanesse photographer present, he kneel down and said to be bunch of words that i rmb forever
and i said yes ^^ our promises even stronger as withness by full of stars from sesoko island in Okinawa.
**Ps by March we got to know we are damn lucky gotten number 5 for our Feb BTO exercise! is a true faith and lucky.
Wedding Diary - Chapter 1 Love Story
its feel strange that out of a very ramdon long lost post
and i am starting off with Wedding Dairy story line!
and I guess, " I AM GETTING MARRY " is really gonna be a ringing throughout til 14.3.27 Sunday.
I cant believe that after all, when i am still feeling lost in life, I am building up my another strong armed.
I know building up a family line, and me and Nic gonna be the top of our own family tree soonner gonna be scary and a lifelong chapter
We both getting to there, and holding each other hands, made promises to safeguard each other.
Thinking back to 619days before, when Me and Nic met and say yes to be each other partner that day onwards.
I know that we both have really own set of story to begin with.
The moment I know that we can be marry couple more than just boyfriend and girlfriend, probably from how he showed his loyalty and sincere to me.
Despite times go on, we both did clog up with lots of busy schedule, aint sure why, works just never get to cleared up from him, because he really a very responsible and commitement guy. He treats things seriously and always well prepared. He not a person that will just blindly go for things that never research before, but i guess he just not OCD, more on getting familiar with thing thats strange to him, He mostly still can be a careless boy in relationship~ working hard in crisis management of work relateds emergency situation, but when come to girlfriend crisis alwasy a zero clue nerdy man. But..... u know what, no matter what, even he still wanna figfht for his rationale right everytime, he alwasy be the one soften down and block out all the way to ensure I wont easily walked off.
He is the person that make me cry more when the very begining, the reason behind it, I have someone that I can lean on. soften my high ego, I just out of sudden, just wanna be a little girl, wanna being protected. Things dont go right, I wanna him first one to know and give me all his attention and the reserve tender loving care. He is a person that, I am constantly sharing with him that, as a modern couple, we shared loads, we shared happiness, sadness, burden, we even share our little own heart secrets. In the world, we wont be lonely, we have each others.
for the past 1 year and 9 months, We been to KL, Penang, Qingdao, UK, Edinburgh, Shanghai, Okinawa. all the trips, we both passed our own standard. we Both aint a OCD couple. we allowed each other get lost of way, we allowed each other live at the moment. The previous part, he leanrd how not to scratch himself like a rubber~ hahahaha, and go with free and easy trip, to feel all the unexpected moments happiness!
We move out for 11 months and staying in a rented studio, a home sweet home that we built and maintained.
Things that touching me, is how he spoke with his family to get concensus on letting him rented out and lived with me.
He may not be a perfect man just like how we watch in movie/ drama, he may not be a perfectionist that with a strongest arm that can fight down bad guys. This period of time, he forming into even more responsible man from we both learning in couple life. Its really a good practise and stepping stone that make we both believe that we can lift up our own family support.
We both gained weight +++, promises on losing weight never come true, even with the power of getting marry soon, i guess we both trying our bare minimnal still haix. ( maybe can talk about this in another chapter)
Mostly, I wanna start this first chapter in updating our love story. The most important thing is when is the moment, He is the one that I want to marry with, and I am the one that he wanna marry with.
to be honest, if I can go wild, I would have marry him 3 months later after we got together, none of the moment, I am not thinking of having shortgun baby! A period of time I keep hoping its come true. ( hold back thought on just knowing this guys for 4 months, and give time sometime to proof thing even more in place)
Based on the faith: we both first dating been built up with all my wishes and all came true. within 2 weeks of just get into relationship, I was assigning of doing home visit just the street of his house. My house number 48, and he is 47. We both changed new workplace in a same year!
Thursday, 6 November 2025
不忘掉该记的
期待另一个得自己出现...
最近的冲，
最近的忙碌，
让我更看到自己的成长....
我更发现，
原来我更懂事了！
我执著的，
已经开始在松手了！
我很庆幸，
我不是那种咬着不放，
非得搞得两败俱伤的自己！
我很庆幸，
我字典里有着“适可而止”这四个字...
初二居，
我没忘了你们，
也不是有了新欢忘了旧爱...
严格上来说，
我把我们的关系比喻成一条线，
我的旧爱害怕会断掉~
我的新欢从未连接过~
相信我，
我从未忘过我们的回忆~
我常常都和身边的人，
分享我们以前的一点一滴！
他们听了也许没什么，
但我说了我更光荣。....
因为我真的有过这么一段刻骨铭心的记忆！！！
真的，
那种感觉虽然不会再回来，
可是在心里面依然会保存着！
毕旅，
我一定会去~
想尽办法，
我都会去的！
最多高三的不就不要去咯~
也没什么的嘛...
我去年都预了和你们去毕旅，
放弃高三的毕旅.....
哈哈，
为了你们而放弃，
那才是最值得的！
哈哈
muacksssss......
这里也不忘，
叫你们家长捐血阿 ~~~
哈哈
Saturday, 5 April 2025
Scattered Memories
seem like quite a while, never left any word in this memory place
been clicking on my keyboard for so many words, but none of it about recording the amazing 4 months of stories.
5/4/25, 2025 1/4 has used up and past.
not sure is a good thing, as drown into loving someone and at the same time pick up lots of challenges and changes on learning on not to be 1.
time tick tocking.. Nic apperared when I almost thought of running out of meaning for living.
Time with him, feel like.. totally different of me.
None of the sec, dont feel like missing him. get more sensitive on being left out or being alone. The daily routine.. all the groceries.. no longer feel like buying for one. even those strawberries, or cherry tomatoes full of his faces..his smiles..
I used to feel gross on this act, but in a way, i told myself this probably a sign that emerging myself to a new life that "in a relationship"
Everyday playing on our playlist name "lucky and sunshine". when music note fall into my ears..feel like we love each other more.
Songs like stuck on you... I see the light... have i told you lately.. 心微微漾...this is promise you
Each time listen back to those piano song that he played, me just melt down each time.
I am so lucky having someone who put me first... treat me like a fragile item.
He first time having a girlfriend, a partner, dealing with a lady who under his care, that so much unknown for him to discover.
My uncontrollable monthly PMS, easily cry over all the small million things.
my tear pipe alwasy turn into full blast when we met less than 2 hours, my forehead kiss didnt get chance to redem, when i push him away..
but each time, he will still patiently be there until my tear dried up and charged me up with all the loves and cares.
we both are learning, all the in a relationship learning package.
i guess the most challenging is time contribution. all my time used to scarttered around to different poeple.
Me being greedy wanna spend all with you at the same time remain the same as usual, that impossible right.
anddddd then me turn into self guilty mode again.. and you heal me again.
I have so much to remember but all those pieces scarrettered in my brain different part. i barely can collide.
I kind of needed some time to tidy up abit, and set up some life goal to live as usual at the same time juggle well time with you.
With you, my man, my partner
we talked about when its the time that upgrade our relationship to next level.
We met each other family.but maybe when time that we be so freely and comfortable infornt of our family.
Ideally if I can be confident one time bring them out for once, let them know that ur love one can share the same responsibily like you.
If I can bring joy and laughs more maybe theres time that i meant for comfortable and freely.
butttt u know what, we are on the way .. mid of progression.
more and more travel moment. explore new moment together, along the way seeing how silly and careless of ourself and backup for each other.
the world soooooo huge and needed so many pin point, but we managed to pin down Penang, Qingdao and more counting on.
During travel, time that belong to us, feel like finally can spend each single sec with you, time that i dont even reply and connect with anyone else. coz all the moment i wanna share with you, who just next to me seeing the same thing as my eyes.
each time when i fall sick being so vulnerable, you alwasy look after me, warm me up. thats the most priceless treasure that i ever have in my life. I alwasy feel so lucky to have you.
you and i continue to work on our career okay ~
u try to bring less work to work at home.
Me trying to pick up more roles and be a busy women
haix.. so many memories flashing out, we have so much pending wishlist gonna build up as a moutain soon
i knowwwwwww it sound like a very ramdom but not meaningful blog recording.
but Baeee you have taken up all my space in my recent life~ u know?
Tuesday, 31 December 2024
记录记录
记录记录
I’m really glad I found you in this crazy world❤️ Just now when we were talking about inside out I really don’t know what came over me…. I think I was just too used to having my guard up all the time and you’re the only one I feel like I can be vulnerable with🥹
I’m glad that you shared your life experiences with me too, I can’t imagine how painful it must be to bring some of them up again… No matter what I’ll be here to hold you if you cry🤗
I promise that I’ll do everything I can to make us the better version of ourselves, and to make you feel like the luckiest girl in the whole world🥰
Thank you for being in my life Ms Sunshine☀️
.....
Omg you know when I listen to this song I’m reminded of our very first date at marina barrage🫶🏻 To me that was really an enchanting experience✨ Sitting together enjoying some good food, talking about everything in the universe, with the 毛毛雨 gently patting our faces and the city lights sparkling in the distance🥰
......
You knowwww, I told my mum about us…. Then she scold me for not telling her earlier so she could get you something nice from japan😝 you see you see, she already taking ur side🤣
.....
Please don’t say you’re being naggy all that! I really love listening and reading your stories, I also get to learn more about you☺️ One thing I really love about you is that you have a deep appreciation for life, it really is an inspiration to me❤️
.....
Actually I’m very similar! On the surface I’m a very bubbly person, always with a smile on my face, I’m happiest when the people around me are happy too!
But beneath it all I’ve struggled with self-doubt at times… The worst episode was in my 2nd year of uni, it got pretty bad and I was in a pretty bad state mentally… I didn’t even tell Mervin this, but I wanted to drop out of school… the person that saved me is my little gabby🥹 He would study with me, come my room and accompany me, and all these little things gave me strength to push on💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
We all have our inner demons, and we need that special someone to help us overcome them.… I’m so lucky that I’ve found someone that has made my life sooooo much brighter, and gives me confidence to face whatever challenge life throws at me…
Thank you too love❤️
I’m really happy that you took a step forward today☺️ 一步一步来, next time you go back I’ll be there with you to hold ur hand😊
...
Yessss, I would still wanna meet your family, even though the first time can be nerve-wrecking! But I think I’d be more excited than nervous becauseeee I get to meet the people who are dearest to you❤️
....
This Mr Lucky is also very very very lucky to have met his miss sunshine🥰 I wanna make the same promise to you, if you ever feel like the love from me is getting smaller, please tell me and I will make it big big big big big again🤗 Love you lotsss too my Miss Sunshine❤️
.....
Literally a long weeek and happening week, and I found a reason that my time gonna be not enough to use liaooo :) buttttt is a newwwww life practise again, learning on how to live as two. 💕 my heart nowwww need to juggleee two of ours heart 💓 mind 🧠 it’s a lovely habit to built up, I wanna make it become my new muscle memory again 🍀
Good thing about us, we just alike. Nowwww just need to do a good merging 😜 hahaaa, lets 携手合作，互相学习🌟
.....
I’m just so happy that come across with you. Anddddd thank you for opening uppppp for me tonight :)
I loveee how shy you were…
I suddenly become a dajiejie that kind. Hahaaaa
Immmm totally not much experience on thissss but I guess with the right person I will notttt feeeeeeel any awkward. Insteaddddd we try it out and makeee it better each time!
U saidddd ur heartbeat gooo crazy.. u must rmb the feelingssss can.. I wanna us even get old tillll in white hairs.. I wanna u still having this 心动的感觉 for me. That’s keep us going on.
You never knowww met a right situation means how important to the person too.
💓💕
Love you small atoms ⚛️
.....
I love this! You know how I told you certain songs will bring me back to certain stages in my life, I’m looking through the playlist and these songs will forever make me think about meeting and falling in love with you🥹🥹🥹
.....
I’m grateful for everything you’ve done for me too loveeee~ I knowww I’m new to alot of things in this area, but I really wanna make you feel like the happiest girl on this planet🤗 Soooo…. don’t need to long anymore loveee, my heart is already yours, forever and always❤️
.....
Is WE become the better version of ourself by discovering the strength and weakness on each others :)
SO WE are influence each other.
Youuu areeeee not doing for meeeeee 💕💕💕
....
I interpret it as a song about love at first sight! It reminds me of you love🥰 第一次见到你， 看着你坐在风景的最中央，雨滴轻轻亲吻你的脸颊，乌云下跑开一束光，打在你闪耀的眼眶🌤️ 跟你在星星下一起分享美好的回忆，我的心微微漾， 就这样你识破了这一颗悸动心脏💓💓💓
....
love languages
记录记录
I’m really glad I found you in this crazy world❤️ Just now when we were talking about inside out I really don’t know what came over me…. I think I was just too used to having my guard up all the time and you’re the only one I feel like I can be vulnerable with🥹
I’m glad that you shared your life experiences with me too, I can’t imagine how painful it must be to bring some of them up again… No matter what I’ll be here to hold you if you cry🤗
I promise that I’ll do everything I can to make us the better version of ourselves, and to make you feel like the luckiest girl in the whole world🥰
Thank you for being in my life Ms Sunshine☀️
.....
Omg you know when I listen to this song I’m reminded of our very first date at marina barrage🫶🏻 To me that was really an enchanting experience✨ Sitting together enjoying some good food, talking about everything in the universe, with the 毛毛雨 gently patting our faces and the city lights sparkling in the distance🥰
......
You knowwww, I told my mum about us…. Then she scold me for not telling her earlier so she could get you something nice from japan😝 you see you see, she already taking ur side🤣
.....
Please don’t say you’re being naggy all that! I really love listening and reading your stories, I also get to learn more about you☺️ One thing I really love about you is that you have a deep appreciation for life, it really is an inspiration to me❤️
.....
Actually I’m very similar! On the surface I’m a very bubbly person, always with a smile on my face, I’m happiest when the people around me are happy too!
But beneath it all I’ve struggled with self-doubt at times… The worst episode was in my 2nd year of uni, it got pretty bad and I was in a pretty bad state mentally… I didn’t even tell Mervin this, but I wanted to drop out of school… the person that saved me is my little gabby🥹 He would study with me, come my room and accompany me, and all these little things gave me strength to push on💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
We all have our inner demons, and we need that special someone to help us overcome them.… I’m so lucky that I’ve found someone that has made my life sooooo much brighter, and gives me confidence to face whatever challenge life throws at me…
Thank you too love❤️
I’m really happy that you took a step forward today☺️ 一步一步来, next time you go back I’ll be there with you to hold ur hand😊
...
Yessss, I would still wanna meet your family, even though the first time can be nerve-wrecking! But I think I’d be more excited than nervous becauseeee I get to meet the people who are dearest to you❤️
....
This Mr Lucky is also very very very lucky to have met his miss sunshine🥰 I wanna make the same promise to you, if you ever feel like the love from me is getting smaller, please tell me and I will make it big big big big big again🤗 Love you lotsss too my Miss Sunshine❤️
.....
Literally a long weeek and happening week, and I found a reason that my time gonna be not enough to use liaooo :) buttttt is a newwwww life practise again, learning on how to live as two. 💕 my heart nowwww need to juggleee two of ours heart 💓 mind 🧠 it’s a lovely habit to built up, I wanna make it become my new muscle memory again 🍀
Good thing about us, we just alike. Nowwww just need to do a good merging 😜 hahaaa, lets 携手合作，互相学习🌟
.....
I’m just so happy that come across with you. Anddddd thank you for opening uppppp for me tonight :)
I loveee how shy you were…
I suddenly become a dajiejie that kind. Hahaaaa
Immmm totally not much experience on thissss but I guess with the right person I will notttt feeeeeeel any awkward. Insteaddddd we try it out and makeee it better each time!
U saidddd ur heartbeat gooo crazy.. u must rmb the feelingssss can.. I wanna us even get old tillll in white hairs.. I wanna u still having this 心动的感觉 for me. That’s keep us going on.
I love tonight.
That our two hearts get closer.
I love you more.
I love to whisper surround you.
I love you will just look me into ur eyes full of shines.
Love you my loveeeee
Anddddd yes don’t ever try to reply meeeee!
Get sleep safe and sound 💕
......
Love you more each day, my sunshine. Every time I hold your hand, or feel your warm embrace, I feel like I’m the luckiest guy alive🍀
I’m glad we took a step forward today💓 My heart only beats for you, forever and always. I love you❤️
Sweet dreams~
......
in this universe I always feel like
Faith and meant to be.
You rmb I told you about
Faith existing but also depend on how much effort you grabbing the chance.
I truly believe that universe existing with everything possibilities.
That why I love life full of imaginations
Where today the exhibition really meant so much for me.
You dare to think. It’s possible to happen, becoz if the longing.
I always feel everyone is equals.
I used to feel like we shall treat everyone from 100% score. If anything go wrong only slowly deducted the mark.
But lots of ppl will say u should have a basic scores.. if better then add point if worse then deduct the person point.
But actually
I really feel like everyone under the universe well deserve with an equivalent treat at the first sight. No judgement.. no hesitation. Eveyrthing get decided again by howww the person’s interaction and behave.
You never knowww met a right situation means how important to the person too.
💓💕
Love you small atoms ⚛️
.....
I love this! You know how I told you certain songs will bring me back to certain stages in my life, I’m looking through the playlist and these songs will forever make me think about meeting and falling in love with you🥹🥹🥹
.....
I’m grateful for everything you’ve done for me too loveeee~ I knowww I’m new to alot of things in this area, but I really wanna make you feel like the happiest girl on this planet🤗 Soooo…. don’t need to long anymore loveee, my heart is already yours, forever and always❤️
.....
Is WE become the better version of ourself by discovering the strength and weakness on each others :)
SO WE are influence each other.
Youuu areeeee not doing for meeeeee 💕💕💕
....
I interpret it as a song about love at first sight! It reminds me of you love🥰 第一次见到你， 看着你坐在风景的最中央，雨滴轻轻亲吻你的脸颊，乌云下跑开一束光，打在你闪耀的眼眶🌤️ 跟你在星星下一起分享美好的回忆，我的心微微漾， 就这样你识破了这一颗悸动心脏💓💓💓
....
Friday, 6 December 2024
尼克乐斯
28岁岁末，我好像遇上了一个让我处得很舒服。不想错失的一个男生。
他的出现，很刚好，他的热烈，他的细心，刚好磨平了我现在的不安。
好神奇，我愿意让一个人对我输入关心，然后只想给他满满我的笑容。我的欢乐。
我也希望，他和我一起的时候，是最幸福的。在他身上，我看到了他眼里，是珍惜有我的出现的。那一份真诚。是一段，我会自己抓住的幸福。
17/11/24 （日）
我们相约野餐式的见面。那一天，我们仿佛聊了一个宇宙。
我很感恩遇见了，待人如待己的你。 第一天的真诚，我暖暖的收在我的记忆里。
后来的你，满满的分享欲，用歌传递故事。
字行间，你纯粹的真诚，是最难能可贵的。
满脑子很多点子的盘算下一次的相约，和安排妥当的担当。
27/11/24 （三）
我们在一个弥漫着约会气息的餐厅里，点了我最爱吃的瑞士火锅。
那一天的我，稍微的害羞了。 因为你的大方得体，你的傻傻的害羞很可爱。
我们去唱了歌，你不懂歌曲却跟随者和着音。我的心只有满满的感动。
我把亲手画给你的卡交给你。你笑着的，很感动的看着我上了末班车。
浓浓睡意的我，等到了你，暖暖的感谢信息。那一次卡片里，我写了想与你创造更多回忆。
3/12/24 （二）
我们正式的去了一个烛光音乐会，一起听着我们彼此喜欢的宫崎骏主题钢琴曲。
那氛围下，不带紧张的害羞的两个人。我们在情侣中拍了合照。
你搭着我的肩，我只希望你可以不松手的就握着我。 微暗的灯光下，多希望我可以凝视着你。
我们随后去了我们喜欢的哈利波特主题咖啡店。做了情侣会做的事
我们互相交换了企鹅这可爱的摆饰。真的好暖。
你和我说你已经想好了，再下一次要带我去哪里。
我只想说，两个人是双向奔赴的。我只希望你也被善待。那是我最大的期许。
希望我们为期26个英文字母的游戏，可以慢慢的帮我们升温。
我也希望，你是我跨越重重，释手不放的人。
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